Sunday, March 04, 2007

Who wouldn't want attention.

A teen age thing that sounds very stupidly romantic, but why would it not be in a marriage?

"He'll call you every morning just to check if you're in time for school.He'll send short messages to you in class only cause he misses you.He'll wait for you outside your school just to walk you home.He'll call to check on you if you had your meals cause he doesn't want you to starve.He'll ask you out whenever possible cause he wants to spend time with you.He'll distract you from your bus just cause he wants to spend more time with you.He'll call you frequently cause he couldn't get you out of his mind.He'll hug you when you are down to let you know he'll always be there.He'll hold your hand and bring you along when you are lost so you'll feel secured.He'll fulfill your unreasonable requests just so you'll be happy.He'll learn to sing your favourite songs so you'll fall asleep with his voice.He'll be ready for all your calls even when its 4am cause he wants to be there for you.He'll never blame you just so he wouldn't upset you.He'll still wait for you even if you're 3 hours late cause he can wait for you, forever.He'll bring roses/gifts for you whenever least expected cause he wants to surprise you.He'll not be ashamed of you no matter what his friends say cause only he knows best.He'll still rush down to meet you when hes really tired cause you're important to him.He'll stay up till late just so you'll fall sound asleep before him.He'll lend you his shoulder to cry on even though you're crying about another guy.He'll do something special for your birthday even though you forgot his.He'll cry in front of you only because he is true to you.He'll respect your every decision and never doubt you.He'll be honest with you even though it'll hurt you.After all, its cause he loves you."

Your input is always welcome.

9 comments:

AGRADA said...

Hey, if you want me to comment on your blog please give me a favor and remove that word verification thing out from my way, etc.

a_akak said...

What can i comment about? as i dont think there is anything to add and as teenagers we did all that but what did we get back excpet hurt and more hurt and it brought back loads of good?bad memories

DaMoon said...

yah, why? why it doesn't last? is it because he was trying really hard to win your heart? and then when he knows he got it everything else vanishes! why many men think doing what teenagers do while they'r married is silly? I don't know maybe I am wrong...

Perkunas said...

That's a very sweet and moving post -- adults learn to shut-down and not show their affection to one another for a variety of reasons. It's possible to reverse that shut-down-effect and to become young-at-heart again, but it can take some work if one has emotional baggage that needs to be unloaded, laundered, and put away in it's rightful place. Long-live teenage innocence!!!

onlibya said...
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onlibya said...

I am not sure if wining the heart would stop affection for one another. There must be some thing we females are missing on when it comes to knowing how to be beside the man jut to make him what he is and who he is. what you say

Perkunas said...

It's easy to take love for granted -- not sure if the woman could make the man change on this issue -- women are very loving and men can be that way as well if they choose to do so.

a_akak said...

i must stand up for the other team the "Men’s Team"

We guys also get hurt by "the others" but we keep it inside and not show it

As for the comment by demoon, I do admit that the pursuit and obstacles does make things a challenge (which is fun) but you only jump these hurdles to reach your aim and if a guy stop there then he has wasted his time, however, when he gets married he feels he doesn’t need to run the extra mile anymore (i can’t say i know about this YET) but if love is there then the extra mile should be normal everyday thing and he should do whatever is needed to make his wife happy

As for the last comment, i didn’t understand it sorry

onlibya said...

Taking for granted what ever the other is doing has its roots in lack of getting to know, therefore understand what the needs of the other are.
Also not been caught in the self observance and be in the middle sort of speak, like BALANCE the self while in a relationship.

I really appreciate the input, thank you.